The Wedding of Steven & Monika

Steven

Monika

Dear

“So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

–

(Matthew 19:6)

Groom and Bride

Steven

Steven Willim B.Arch

The First Son of:

Mr. Sutomo Willim

Mrs. Lim Tjhai Ai

Monika

Monika Lavender B.Arts

The Daughter of:

Mr. Kurmin Halim S.H

Mrs. Shinta Djie

Holy

Matrimony

Saturday,

15th November 2025

11.00 WIB

Cathedral Church of St. Joseph.

Jl. Patimura No. 195,

Darat Sekip Pontianak Kota,

Pontianak, Kalimantan Barat 78011

Reception

Saturday,

15th November 2025

18.00 WIB

Novotel Pontianak

Jl. Budi Karya, Benua Melayu Darat,

Kec. Pontianak Sel,

Kota Pontianak, Kalimantan Barat

Counting Days

The clock was ticking so fast, between thrilling moments that we had never felt before. We look forward to welcoming family and friends to witness our blessing vows on a happy day.

Days

Hours

Minutes

Seconds

Our Love Story

Then Almitra spoke again and said, And
what of Marriage, master?
And he answered saying:

You were born together, and together you
shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when the white
wings of death scatter your days.

Ay, you shall be together even in the
silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance
between you.

Love one another, but make not a bond
of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between
the shores of your souls.
Fill each other’s cup but drink not from
one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat
not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous,
but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone
though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each
other’s keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain
your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near
together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow
not in each other’s shadow.